說好的幸福呢 (MTV), By Jay Zhou

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I personally like this Jay Zhou's song - Shuo Hao De Xing Fu Ne (說好的幸福呢 Meaning "Where's the loving & content future we talk about" or something like that.) Jay's fan, please pardon me if the translation is not 100% accurate. Anyway, personally Jay is not an idol of mine, don't really like the way he sings I guess. However, some of his songs are really nice to hear, if not most of his lyrics makes superb meaning in life, especially this one...

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This song reminds me of the many times couples quarrel. See, many times when couples quarrel, they tend to say things which they don't really mean to say during the heat of the moment, for example, "Let's break-up" for instance. Normally that was said without proper thought...

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It might be just some simple or stupid disagreement the couple have, but somehow it can lead to some disasterous outcome. I won't want to go into how it is developed, because there are just millions & billions of senarios, and also the fact that I'm just plain lazy. But... I'll like to say something else ~

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During such similar senarios, when it reaches the part where one is about to utter out some painfully cruel words to the other, I want to freeze the moment and take a step back and walk down some memory lanes...

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The first place we go is the beginning, where everything started; the time when they first met. What is it like? How does it feel? Is it fated to happen? Next, we shall visit how they got together. How is it like? What is said? Shall we ask why they decide to be together? Is there any promise(s) made? Will there be any time limit? Finally before we go back to the actual time, let's go see everything that has happened since the day they are together until now. Are there any memorable events that have taken place? Any more further commitents or promises agreed upon? Any quarrels or disagreements occured? How happy or/and sad are they when they are happy and/or sad? Are there any tears dropped? If yes, are they the happy or sad ones? And why the tears...? Is there even any regret...?

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Now that we have all been through all their future, and by looking at the current situation, what are they thinking of currently? Have they forgotten everything from the past? Or is the current incident BIG enough to overwrite everything from the pass~? If it's not, will it be nessary to hurt the other person, or the relationship~? Are they prepared to accept the future it brings no matter what happens?

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See, if only we can freeze time and do the time travel thingy as mentioned earlier, we will save a lot of unnessary time, not make the wrong choices, and thus not hurt any person(s) we care about, including ourselves...

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With that, I shall end my entry and wish you readers with best regards in your love life. Love Right, Do The Right Thing ~