BUT, I am not saying that everybody is one, mind u. =) A lot are really not. At least there's hope in that aspect. Have you come across someone or many girls, as a matter of fact, that seems/seem to care for not much more than material satisfaction? Sometimes I think it is society. Molded us that way. Maybe we are becoming the new Japan, where their younger generations' goal is living for the moment? Have you thought about that? I believe that every single person CAN more/less control your own future. You can choose whether or not to cross that road, and whether to flirt with that man across the bar. Actually I believe that a proper conversationalist and good looker can win any guy’s heart (having substance in conversations is also a factor). AND I believe that mentally, whether guys want to know or not, girls are just as good, if not better.

Than WHY, I would want to ask, are so many girls seeking the easy way out? We can work for our own future AND carve our own careers. HELLO, wake up and smell the coffee, this is not the sixties where we have to fight for the landlord's son so as to ensure we don't have a physically taxing life and still be guaranteed that our husband, given the extra cash, will have extra ladies behind his back. Somehow, I know I sound ridiculous but please my darling ladies, don't be seduced by the luxurious life you wish to have and pay with interest, your future happiness. If you have taken basic economics, you would know that there is always this pie chart where if you had more of this, you would have to forsake the other. True enough, I believe it relates to life basically too. Just how big or small that pie depends on your effort.

Our kindergarten innocence is long gone. Monetary evil settled as soon as we got our first 70 cents allowance from Mummy/Daddy. But morality still prevails I believe. At least I see it in many a young woman. It is never too late to turn back. Why make men feel like they can AFFORD us? Women fought for independence and so why waste it? I dun really see us as toys, do you?

This is actually very opinionated. Maybe you might think that pursuing for a wealthy lifestyle your way is your business and it is right. Ok. I might be wrong too. It is up to you. Your set of values. What are your values? Do you still keep what your parents/teachers taught you? I am only saying this because I care (a lot) and I would like to state that this entry is definitely NOT targeted at anyone. Just generalizing. Why try to get hurt? Growing up is a phase. I learnt the hard way but I never sold my dignity. Not to any man. But embarrassing yourself for the one man you love is fine. (exp. He slaps your butt unwittingly in front of your friends.)

I do not know if I would make any sense to anyone reading this cause I have some mixed feelings about this as well. Being female, we usually have this 'not-having-to-pay-for-the-cab-fare-after-clubbing-with-guys' thingy. But where should we draw the line? Think about it. I believe you already have the answer.

Posted by Stanley @ 10:26 AM